July 22, 2019
Attachment style is built on our experiences as a child. This lonely child could well become and adult who feels abandoned.
Attachment style and your relationship
There is an intimate connection between attachment style and your style of relationship. Attachment style is about how you learned to love and trust as a […]
November 4, 2019
Sameness or difference. Do you need to feel like peas in a pod with your partner? Or are you fascinated and intrigued by the very different way they do things?
Sameness or difference: Do you still love me when we don’t agree?
In "Sameness or difference: do you still love me when we don't agree?",  you will discover the importance of apparently contradictory things: consensus, mirroring, individuation and […]
November 4, 2019
We just had a few drinks and…
When I see a couple for therapy and they begin a sentence with "We just had a few drinks and..." I know that what comes next […]
November 4, 2019
Soule and Money - in God we trust, or do we? How are soul and money related?
Soul and money: what deep attitude does money reveal?
Let us pause to consider why money is such a tricky business. Before we get to “Money-talk: yours, mine and ours”, the companion-article which follows this […]