July 27, 2020
Let's talk. From the earliest years, we have a built-in need to communicate.

Let’s Talk: conversation during isolation

Conversation during isolation in Covid-19 In social isolation and physical distancing, conversation creates connectedness and intimacy.  But often conversations are “transactional”, meaning they are about the […]
June 23, 2020
Relationship Doctor - How to kill a relationship

How to Kill a Relationship

Here’s how to kill a relationship in four easy steps By Joe Kort For MediaNews Group Mar 16, 2020 How to kill a relationship? Freezing out […]
November 4, 2019
Money-talk is important fo couples, as shown by these stacks of gold coins.

Money-talk: yours, mine and ours

There are so many different attitudes and values associated with money. In my previous Insight, “Soul and Money” you learned of some of the mysterious psychological […]
November 4, 2019

We just had a few drinks and…

When I see a couple for therapy and they begin a sentence with “We just had a few drinks and…” I know that what comes next […]
July 22, 2019
Attachment style is built on our experiences as a child. This lonely child could well become and adult who feels abandoned.

Attachment style and your relationship

There is an intimate connection between attachment style and your style of relationship. Attachment style is about how you learned to love and trust as a […]
July 7, 2019
The four personality types are all perfectly normal ways of functioning and perceiving the world. They are present from birth and modified by environment and experience.

Understand personality to solve communication difficulties!

Having trouble understanding yourself? Having trouble understanding others? Understanding personality can solve many communication difficulties. Much misunderstanding between people is because we imagine that all people […]