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Money-talk: yours, mine and ours

T here are so many different attitudes and values associated with money.

Your attitudes around money will directly affect your direction. How you earn and use money is an expression of the soul, it is not merely economics. Understanding of your attachment styles will smooth the money-talk. A relationship between money and attachment style, you ask? Read this Relationship Insight. See what you think.

A writer’s bio

A t every turn, relationships are the core of your life – and of mine. It took the breakdown of my long-term relationship for me to go into the depths of what makes relationships work – or not. I became more courageous about tackling the hard stuff, both in myself and in my clients.

I have been hatching these Relationship Insights all my life. I just didn’t know it.

Relationship Insights

November 4, 2019
Money-talk is important fo couples, as shown by these stacks of gold coins.

Money-talk: yours, mine and ours

There are so many different attitudes and values associated with money. In my previous Insight, "Soul and Money" you learned of some of the mysterious psychological […]
November 4, 2019
Soule and Money - in God we trust, or do we? How are soul and money related?

Soul and money: what deep attitude does money reveal?

Let us pause to consider why money is such a tricky business. Before we get to “Money-talk: yours, mine and ours”, the companion-article which follows this […]
November 4, 2019

We just had a few drinks and…

When I see a couple for therapy and they begin a sentence with "We just had a few drinks and..." I know that what comes next […]
November 4, 2019
Sameness or difference. Do you need to feel like peas in a pod with your partner? Or are you fascinated and intrigued by the very different way they do things?

Sameness or difference: Do you still love me when we don’t agree?

In "Sameness or difference: do you still love me when we don't agree?",  you will discover the importance of apparently contradictory things: consensus, mirroring, individuation and […]
July 22, 2019
Attachment style is built on our experiences as a child. This lonely child could well become and adult who feels abandoned.

Attachment style and your relationship

There is an intimate connection between attachment style and your style of relationship. Attachment style is about how you learned to love and trust as a […]
July 21, 2019
These multi-coloured balloons suggest levity, lightness and happiness. But is happiness aiming too low?

Is happiness aiming too lo​w? Try meaning, flow and responsibility.

Have you ever considered that aiming for happiness might be aiming too low? Do you say to your kids, "I just want you to be happy"?  Or, […]