Welcome to Relationship Insights by Relationship Doctor, Kaye Gersch PhD

Are you frustrated by being unable to communicate effectively with your partner? Do you ever feel properly heard? Are you unable to “get through” to your partner?

Do you fight, but the fights don’t lead to any resolution or solution? Instead, do your fights lead to an accumulation of bad feelings? Do the bad feelings erode the joy, hope and vitality you had at the beginning of your relationship?

Are you at the beginning of your relationship, and want to avoid pitfalls, and instead build a strong, sustainable relationship that will weather the storms of life?

Do you want to learn more about love, and how to grow love?

You need Relationship Insights!

I initially wrote these Insights for clients to apply, between couple’s therapy sessions, as homework.  Then other people wanted access to them. As a result I have created this website for you. The focus is how to repair, grow and sustain your relationship.

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Surviving the holidays

Are you going to spend your Christmas holidays stressing, or enjoying your partner and family?

Christmas holidays are destabilizing, because of the loss of routine and structure of ordinary life. The freedom of the holidays might feel good, but familiar comforts are not available. The gym is closed, and the cleaner is on holidays. Your favourite trades-people are on a long break, often for a whole month, so your usual acts of commerce, which provide both structure and interaction with others, are not available. Apart from not being able to toss off a few DIYs, you feel at a loss.

Mental health issues are at a peak during the holiday season, and loss of routine and structure is one of the main reasons. The other is the unrealistic expectations around what feelings you are going to have, of love and family warmth.


“By dint of experience, Kaye Gersch understands the ups and downs of relationships. Relationship Insights marries her many years of wisdom from lived experience with the depth of Jungian psychology. The insights are both practical and reassuring; they normalise how it really is in intimate relationships, while at the same time suggesting ways to navigate the various dilemmas we confront. In bite-sized pieces, this nourishment is easy to digest and supports the deep intimacy that comes when we’re prepared to be in relationship for the long haul.”

Sharon Moloney, PhD

Women’s health practitioner, hypnotherapist and author of “Activate Your Female Power”.

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