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Here’s how to kill a relationship in four easy steps


ost of us expect our love relationship will last forever; that our love will endure the challenges you face along your life’s journey together.

But if you don’t know how to navigate roadblocks you encounter as a couple, you may crash and burn. Knowing how to steer away from those danger zones will help sustain your relationship.

Let’s look at common issues that can kill a relationship and what you can do to avoid them.

Read this By Joe Kort For MediaNews Group. See what you think.

A writer’s bio

A t every turn, relationships are the core of your life – and of mine. It took the breakdown of my long-term relationship for me to go into the depths of what makes relationships work – or not. I became more courageous about tackling the hard stuff, both in myself and in my clients.

I have been hatching these Relationship Insights all my life. I just didn’t know it.

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